God is love -- 1 John 4:8...and also through the life of Jesus, who was God in human flesh. Jesus' actions are clearly those of loving, caring, humble, person and those are generally what we look to when thinking of a Christian role model.
But very often we find people making out that Old Testament God is a very different character to New Testament God and Jesus, even though they are the same.
In one particularly hilarious example from the show 'Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt', a character at one point says, "Oh, thank angry Old Testament God, the one who's always threatening to kill children to prove a point!". While later, another character, Titus, while praying says, "Forgive me friendly New Testament God after you settled down and had a family."